Today I was just breezing through the news feeds, when I came across a interesting article on CNN. It reminded me of all the talks I have had with Christine when it came to how guys view the fairer sex. Well, at least guys like me, since everyone’s different. She’s always had the assumption that most guys always will prefer “hotties” with big breasts, skinny waists and not much in the intelligence and common sense department. I’ve always had to prove her wrong, at least as far as I’m concerned; I need to have/date/marry a girl that can challenge me intellectually as well as physically. We always brought up Anna Nicole Smith as an example (God rest her soul). Christine admired ANS for her beauty and thought that if I were in a bar and saw this woman and spoke to her, that I’d want to try and have a chance with her. My response: I found ANS so damn annoying (apologies to all Anna lovers everywhere), I’d be hard pressed to want anything to do with her, let alone a one-nighter!
Anyways, check out this article on CNN.com: “Actress Danica McKellar: ‘Smart is cool’”
It’s gratifying to know that there’s still a few “child-stars” out there that can demonstrate common sense and intelligence. Even more gratifying is the fact that Ms. McKellar wants to set a positive example for all the younger girls everywhere, to offset her contemporaries like Lindsey Lohan and Paris Hilton. Granted, she’s a few years older than the aforementioned bimbos women; Lohan just turned all of 21, fer cryin’ out loud! However, there’s no excuse for adult women, even big-name stars, to consistently act like 15 year olds that got loose in daddy’s liquor cabinet. Heck, my younger-than-15 cousins (three girls, plus two boys on my wife’s side) act with more maturity than what Paris and Lohan have displayed!
That being said, I remember a survey that asked a bunch of male Hollywood and music stars just what turned them on in a woman. What qualities did they look for? I believe most of the men surprisingly put intelligence before beauty, if not on par with each other. Some stated that the girl has to challenge them intellectually, others said they want a woman that simply has a good mind behind those pretty eyes. As for me… well, I’m very happy with my wife. Christine is a college grad with an Associates and a Bachelors degree, loves to have intelligent conversations (though she’s not good with words) AND she’s just so damn cuuuuuute! Just a few reasons for my love for her.
Cheers!
(Edited later: originally said five girl cousins, but two of them are way older than 15. Apologies to those other two lovely cousins!)
(Another edit to say: Hoowaah! Fellow blogger Wil Wheaton wrote up a similar article yesterday about this. I didn’t see it before, despite subscribing to his feed. Awesome post, Wil!)
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